4. Some suggested solutions for school
and family education for juvenile crime
4.1. Solutions for family education
Firstly, the practice of psychological and
physical development of children shows
that each child's personality is formed when
they are very small, even before the
juvenile’s age (3-4 years old) and their first
impression on the role model is always the
deepest one. During these ages, the family
is the child’s closest living environment.
Therefore, it will be more effective if the
child's personality, his love for people,
things around and his mutual responsibility...
is formed and promoted through the family
upbringing. Thus, the parents and family
members should be the best example to the
children.
Secondly, a healthy family is the perfect
environment for the young people to form
their good personality. Although the juvenile
are physically big, they are still young
people and they always need to be educated.
It is important to let the children feel love.
Despite the difficult times, when they may
lack materials, they should be compensated
with love and sacrifice of family members -
this will be a good way to educate children
to overcome the personal desire and learn
how to share and support each other.
Thirdly, parents and relatives should act
as friends "opening the children’s heart".
Extremely strict or extremely indulgent
attitudes are not good education methods
which may lead to the child's misbehavior.
The education methods are inappropriate
such as reprimanding, insulting, beating,
threatening by the parents and family that
this will cause bad reactions and distance
between the children and the adults. When
the children lose their faith in their parents
and family, they will fall into negative state,
lose their trust. If they do not orient
properly and timely, they will commit the
offense very easily.
Fourthly, let’s be tolerant to children,
especially the juvenile while they are
reintegrating with the community. Most
children want to escape from their family’s
control also act in a group, which they
consider as a different world unlike their
family environment. Thus, when the juvenile
commit crime, the best solution is not using
rods, the best one is psychological treatment.
The parents should open their heart and
accept them, help them to regain the
balance and belief in life.
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